When every hope we save seems falling apart and
we don’t want to be tossed again to the moment of despair, a re-routing is a best recourse. And when everything in our surrounding is a little noisy and
messy, a temporary silence becomes a necessity.
Pain is pesky, but rejection is more dangerous.
It disintegrates self-esteem. It’s impact is so sickening that we wished it
could be avoided. But somewhere along this journey, we would come to realize
that it is inevitable to encounter that pesky, dangerous thing. It’s part of
the package of being human and anyone who don’t recognize it never actually
live at all.
But I’ll be a stupid fool if I would say we
must push ourselves into it to experience life to the fullest, that we must enjoy its
torturing nature to understand what’s going on in the environment, it’s still
one thing in life that we hope can be abated by all means. But if it is already there, let’s face it
courageously and transform its negative impact into positive. Moping won’t help
anything.
It is through pain and rejection that we become
more acquainted with our real selves, who we are, our strength, our potential, the
energy that flows and the effort to overcome the
ordeal.
In life, we always have that specific concept of
living beautifully, we always have that kind of notion how we would spend the
rest of our lives in harmony, who we want to be with, where we want to go, what
we want to do. But oftentimes, it never ended the way we want it to be, it’s
not that life is hostile or circumstances are cruel, but it is just how life
revolved in the planet. Soon, we would come to realize that not everything we
dreamed can be given, not every wish we cultivated can be accorded, it’s not a
mystery of mankind, it is just how destiny rolled.
So what are we gonna do with it? Obviously, we
don’t need to spend the whole afternoon beside the window of our bedroom
agonizing over why someone had dump us, why the earth suddenly appeared obscure and
why the rotation of the universe seemed misaligned. Of course we must find ways
to understand the little phenomenon called hurt that hits our horizon and do
something to prevent it from damaging the entire veins in our body system.
Sometimes a little silence is what we needed to
sort out everything, process thoroughly that pesky dangerous thing, understand its causes and keep moving on
with life.
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