Thursday, July 26, 2012

Beware of Cheaters!

Kristen Stewart issued a public apology. But no amount of repent could repair the damage she had done, now she is pictured as a girl from hell not an innocent human adored by vampires in the Twilight saga. Is her relationship with her co-star, Rob Pattinson, was for real or just another made-to-order Hollywood dish

Recently, I was shocked to read the news that Kristen Stewart, from the Twilight fame, had an illicit affair with her Snow white and the Huntsman director, Rupert Sanders, a 41 year old British film maker.

Shock, because I could not believe she could do such nasty and inconceivable thing since she looked like a dewy angel and appeared very polite.

Why did she do it when Sanders is already married with two young children? 

Rupert Sanders is married to Liberty Ross, a supermodel who appeared in Snow White as young Snow white's wicked step mother, Kristen is in a relationship (so they say) with her Twilight leading man, Robert Pattinson, an international heart throb, whom many are smitten. 


I thought the news was only a publicity stunt. What happened to Kristen? Didn't she knows that men in general detested women who cheat because it is a huge slap to their manhood?

Oh well, now it can be told, it's painstakingly impossible to detect right away who are cheaters and who are not. 

People really are insatiable, difficult to be contented with what they already have. The trouble with them is they kept on looking on the other side of the road to find happiness or gain or get more when they actually already have it in their palm, as the old adage goes "Busy picking stones when what they actually throws are diamonds"


The fact that having them as a boyfriend or girlfriend is downright degrading and disgusting, the least we can do to protect ourselves from trauma and pain these ghastly people would later inflect is to be aware all the time with the dangerous signs of their kind.

Your number one hint is your instinct, this is very true among women. Our intuition often times is very accurate. We know exactly when men cheat when they are hiding something when all is not well, especially if the man we loved is dangerously forming an uncomfortable bond with a flirt girl. 


If you do suspect your partner having an affair, says Good to Know site, that feeling might be accurate. So never ignore your instinct.


In an age of modern technology and distracting lifestyle trends, it's intensely difficult to find a loyal partner that will really stick with you through thick and thin. But what's disappointing in this world is that men and even women look like they are more fascinated with people with strong sex appeal and who have the tendency to cheat. 

Here are the possible signs of cheaters according to various sources online:

Quick to jump to the other side of the fence

If you get what I mean. 

Men and Women who quickly flirt and form a hideous "mutual understanding" relationship with another species even if they are still with somebody is a danger sign that they are capable of cheating. Look, if they did it on their current flame what made you think they will not do it with you? Common sense dictates that someone who cheats with her or his love is utterly stupid and disrespectful so how can you trust that person?

I've a friend who once told me that he and his girlfriend is hiding their relationship first because she has still an unresolved issue with her boyfriend, to make it clear, they formed a relationship even before that girl broke up with her boyfriend! What a disgusting, ghastly situation, was he not aware that he was actually forming a relationship with a cheater?And what made he think she won't repeat that performance? It's not genuine love. Well, he was blinded with infatuation, with a spark, and just like all sparks the intense emotion will die down and won't last. A relationship build in deceit and betrayal will end in deceit and betrayal and even worse! 

He or She gets irritated quickly.

When you ask them questions about what they are up to, they start to act all too defensively and jumpy. They become so irritable with a slight provocation. A simple misunderstanding would result and erupt to a huge argument that no amount of apology can pacify. It might be that they are looking only for an excuse to break the relationship because someone out there is just waiting.

Hard to stick/settle on one thing

People who seem cannot stick in a relationship longer than one year is another danger sign. These people have flimsy emotion that can easily dissuade, very temporary. Focusing on one thing is a huge task, it takes faith, courage and honesty to build a lasting relationship, not just love but trust, you cannot build an eternal relationship alone in love. People who seem cannot settle on one thing has a cluttered mind and this weakness would bring them to hop in to another "nest" because they are unsure what they are looking. They are just blinded with the idea of falling in love.

Impossible Liar

She or he lies too often. What makes it worst is the inconsistency of the statement loaded with too many futile excuses. They become very defensive and insensitive. If your partner is behaving this way, there could be a hidden "monster" beneath the sunny surface. Then later you will discover she or he has three email accounts you never know about,  two phones but you only know one, when the phone rings, he or she starts walking out of the room and tells you it's nothing it's just his or her stalker taking adventure.  If the answer of your inquiry is always "you're crazy", then trust your instinct, your suspension might be true.

Hanging out with friends too frequently at night

The old folks say "people who hang out with friends too often at night with drinks and silly conversation are those who often cheat", their observation is after all true. No men and women in their correct senses would spend every other night with friends in a bar or somewhere else and went home very late at night with an irritable mood.

Sudden changes and you are no longer talking

Suddenly strange changes took place. The old routine is replaced by new, surprising twist. You are no longer talking, not even hi's and hello's. Suddenly he or she is unreachable, could not be found and always busy doing other stuff. If he starts less becoming interested in your conversation, too busy and irritated to listen to your sharing, then it's an indication that he is getting his emotional fix elsewhere.

You are no longer invited to gatherings

Remember the days when you always used to accompany him or her to Christmas parties or Summer outings or just be with him or her in a quiet afternoon in a cafe house? Then suddenly there's been a change of policy, it may be your partner is eyeing someone new and does not want to create an awkward situation when you are both in a group.

Again, trust your instinct. A little investigation will be a great help but intuition is often the key to great discovery.

Sources: Good to Know UK website, Marie Claire website and Yahoo News

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